Living Arrangement Contract

My philosophy of marriage yours and your signifi keistert others philosophy of marriage. This is my Philosophy on marriage. When I think of marriage I think of a special bond between twain people. I believe marriage is a choice among the ones that eat up a mutual relationship and they privation to show other people how much they care intimately each other. The two get ahead a mutual decision to ca-ca a ceremony of some sort and have a regimen recognize on that point union and that they share almost every facet of their lives together. Marriage to me means that they pass on endure good multiplication and bad times together while showing mutual appraise towards each other.My wifes Philosophy on marriage. Marriage, to me, is kind of lake taking a leap of faith. When you blasphemy to love and be with the same person for the suspension of your behavior, youre putting the hopes and dreams and thoughts and jots of two completely contrastive lives and people into one. Finding a way to sire it head for the hills isnt ceaselessly the easiest thing, but thats where the teamwork r solelyy starts. It about believing and knowing the other person will always be there for you to hear you for, support you when you need it, and to pick you up when you think youve fallen for good.Marriage is a partnership, a friendship, and a bond that takes a lot of work but always reaps the best benefits and can reward you for the rest of your life if you care for it properly. My philosophy of love and my significant others philosophy of love. This is my Philosophy on love. Love is non just one dimensional. I think of love as being like a 7 spirit level of coffee tree cake. The top layer represents the most extreme case of love because it has the most drinking chocolate of all the layers. In this case that would mean love put up a aspect for my wife. Love to me is a feeling that is strong that it can supersede anything.Love changes your feelings toward a person whether it is for the right reasons or not. I have bring someone so special to me that has made my feelings and emotions change for the better. Love also brings in the sensual side of me that I do not share with others. For one that would be gross and another(prenominal) bond with her is set apart from her and the others. (The cake in between the frosting) My philosophy of love towards my now wife of seven years is still there, and still burning strong inside me. I have seen how love has made me do things for her that I would not even slow down to think about anybody else for.The next layer of the chocolate cake is still very tasty but doesnt include the same taste and goes as far as the first layer with my wife. I can also extend that love to my children and my family, (another layer and my friends (another layer and so on) that are very close to me. The love for my children are just as strong for my wife, but in a totally different way. I would do anything for my children as extensive as it will not make them into a bad person. For instance, I will not drench a bank for my child if they needed money, but I might inflict pain on someone who has hurt my two young daughters, all in the name of love for my children.My wifes Philosophy on love. Love is something that can come in so many forms. It is shown in so many different ways and means different things to different people. When you love someone you dont mind doing things you normally wouldnt do if it makes the other person happy. Thinking of them and showing them affection should be second nature. You want to make them laughs it warms your heart to see them smile. Love is something that is felt within but you occur different little way to bring it out and share it. Love for your spouse, your children, your parents, your friends, and together family members are all felt differently.Its up to you to show them what love for them is. How are you breathing out to cope with or negociate the following topics Religi on, vehicle responsibilities, spouse independence, personal independence, academic or occupational issues, intimacy, communication, money, social activities, rearing of children, and kinsperson responsibilities etc? Religion is just another thing that is always there, but not necessarily in the onward front of what we think about on a daily basis. I for one am a spiritual person. I believe in a higher power, but I dont believe in organized religion.I understand why it is there and that most people in the ball need it in their lives. I dont have a problem with it and I am always willing to pick up to any body about it as long as they arent trying to push it on me, and being over bearing. My wife on the other hand is Jewish and doesnt practice like most do except around the bigger holidays, such(prenominal) as, Chanukah, pass over, etc And we are both cool with that. In fact I kind of know more about here religion then she does. Coping with vehicle responsibilities is easy. I hav e my vehicles and she has hers.We each turn over for and maintain our own vehicles so there are no problems what so ever. We both share the campaign responsibilities and it works out great. Coping with spouse independence can be tricky at times especially now that I am back in school. Sometimes she wants to go out and have girls night out, and I fully understand. But I have to ask her to narrow down herself so that I am not the only one to watch the kids all by I why doing school work all the time. I sometimes wish that I had more take over time. My personal independence has changed a lot. I have to think about not just myself. the likes of when I was younger.I have many responsibilities now Wife, Children, Work, and School. I have always been good at interpreted care of myself when it is needed most. Coping with academic or occupati9onal issues has been a top priority on my list. I make sure that I take care of my work activities and do the right thing for my play along and fo r myself in order to keep a job. It is extremely important now that the recession is still going on. That also ties into my academics. I try to do as well as I possibly can because I have found that if you want to do well in life you must make sure you get your education and do as well as possible.Just getting by was my centenarian way of life, and I have found that did not lead me to what I wanted in life. niggardness has never been a problem for me. I have found someone that I care about and love. I am still very much fitted to be intimate with my wife. Communication has always been a trial and error thing with me. Over the years I have learned to listen to my wife and do what she says. By doing so I am saving a lot of grief. (Just kidding) I do try to listen to all points in any argument and then try to make the best decision possible.That was a problem earlier in life where I might have let my ego take over and make a wrong choice because I wouldnt know how to communicate. Co ping with money, like must people can be trying. I work at handling my finances and try not to over glide by from time to time. Social activities, in my life has, diminished mainly because I am so involved in with my immediate family, school, and work. There is not enough time in the day. Once I finish with school I should be able to be involved in social activities. Rearing of children has been difficult at times, but again it is another part of life and I think that I am doing well.I do wish I could spend more time with them then I do, but I think they understand that I am doing it for them. Finally, coping with household responsibilities like I have been saying this how time. I have to manage my work load, (meaning school, work, family, etc) find the time to share the household responsibilities. Right now I have projects everywhere. I am building a tree house, remodeling a basement, building a fence. And so on and so on. When I have free time I try to work on something. I have cash in ones chips quite good at juggling.